Discipleship sounds like it’s only what people in ministry do. While that is one of the things that people in ministry do, it is not exclusive to them. In Matthew 28, Jesus’s last words to the disciples were to make more disciples. So, if we identify ourselves with Christ today, we are called His disciples. Since we are also His disciples, His words apply to us too.

Let’s address some basic questions first. What is discipleship? How do we disciple? Who do we even disciple?

“Go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you.” (Matthew 28:19-20).

From this passage, discipleship was described to be 2 things: converting and teaching.

The command to baptize them implies that they decided to give their lives to Christ, hearing about the gospel that compelled them to do so. In response to this, we are to preach the gospel to those who have not received it yet. Secondly, teaching them to walk in the Word is equally important. This can be in knowledge of the Word or by showing a mature conduct in faith, that is teaching by example.

Who do we disciple? Everyone, even nations as Jesus said. But start with your own environment. Are there friends who have not yet known the gospel? Preach the gospel to them, and exemplify the gospel to them. In teaching, especially in church contexts, remind each other about Christ, Godly conduct, and His word. Anytime you point someone to Christ, that is an act od discipleship.

This is what we are called to do. But how do we get to a place where we are able to do this?

That would be a relationship.

Practically, relationships are the foundation of discipleship. When you have established a relationship with someone, they can see the gospel personally in your life (converting) and you have more chance to edify them on a deeper level (teaching).

The most expensive form of discipleship is your time. Time builds relationships. Invest time in people. Love them with your time. Invite them for a catch up. Check up on them from time to time. Ask them about all areas of their life. Be vulnerable with them too. Our faith is not meant to be walked alone.

Lastly, the most important relationship in discipleship is our relationship with Christ. The act of discipleship is an evidence of the love of Christ in your life (John 13:34-35). If you have His love, you will naturally gravitate towards discipling others.

So, if you feel like you are new to this whole discipleship thing, ask for Christ’s love to be magnified in your life. The rest should follow as you go.